Write beyond what you know • 11.11.09
Everyone who has ever taken an English class has heard the old writing advice that you should write what you know. This sounds logical enough, but taken literally, it is incredibly limiting. Most of us, by definition, are average people leading average lives. Writing only what you know makes it seem as if we can never use our imaginations to create new worlds, bizarre situations, or characters who do things we would never dream of doing. This is obviously not true, as successful writers have always written about both their everyday, known lives, as well as impossibly amazing realities no one had ever dreamed of before. Without expanding our writing parameters to include any and all possibilities, we are limited to a very dull set of stories set in the present or very recent past.
Some writers should take this advice literally. There is no shortage of stories about people’s everyday lives, and many of the most touching emotional dramas and poignant portraits have come from real-life experiences and writers simply recalling things that have happened to them. But if you grew up in the suburbs of Chicago and were born in 1983, you aren’t limited to that geographical location and that 26 year time period.
As I touched on in my post about research and fact-checking, if you do your homework, you are free to write about anything you want. Write about a historical time period you love, just make sure you get your facts straight and don’t accidentally feature your characters using a device that wasn’t invented yet. Write about an imagined fantasy world that you have created, just be consistent and make sure you outline how this world works.
You can and should still write what you know in terms of your character arc. Of course you can try to write about a character with experiences nowhere near your own, but the best stories, no matter where or when they are set, are about emotional experiences and thematic elements that the writer understands on a deep level. Your story may not take place in Chicago in 1992, but if you experienced, say your mother dying in childbirth, you can use your experience-what you know-to write a poignant portrayal of someone in post-World War II New York whose husband died in the war. The experience of loss, survivor guilt, and the feeling of being abandoned are consistent with your own experiences, regardless of the setting. Maybe you’re an expert on breeding miniature schnauzers, because your family did that. This might make a boring movie, but if your character has a dog, it should probably be a mini schnauzer because you’re familiar with the breed and can more realistically portray what they are like. You may not have lived in rural France, but traveling there and researching about daily life there will give your setting credibility nonetheless. As you write down your ideas and develop outlines and stories, you’ll find that you know more than you realize, and you can use your experiences to craft compelling characters whose decisions, motivations, and character arcs are realistic and believable, even if the world they inhabit is something you have never seen.
